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Mary and Martha
Sisters Who Served
In Luke 10:38-42 we meet Martha and Mary who are apparently two
single sisters living together. While John’s Gospel tells us about
Jesus’ resurrecting Lazarus from the dead (John 11), Luke makes no
mention of Lazarus.
10:38 Now as they went on their way, he entered a certain
village, where a woman named Martha welcomed him into her home.
10:39 She had a sister named Mary, who sat at the
Lord's feet and listened to what he was saying. 10:40 But Martha
was distracted by her many tasks; so she came to him and asked,
"Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to do all the
work by myself? Tell her then to help me."
When Jesus and the twelve come into their village Martha welcomes
them into her home. At his point, often interpretation pits sister against
sister to elevate "being" with the Lord (Mary) above "doing" for the
Lord (Martha). But this approach misses what Luke is doing in this
narrative. As Fred Craddock points out, the "radicality" of this story
should not be overlooked: "Jesus is received into a woman’s home (no
mention is made of a brother) and he teaches a woman" (Craddock, 152).
For the first century Jew, sitting at someone’s feet did not bring to
mind children sitting at the feet of adults listening to stories.
Sitting at someone’s feet meant higher, formal education. Jesus was
known as a rabbi, a teacher. To sit at his feet meant that one was being
trained as a disciple (cf. Luke 8:35). Mary was not quietly sitting
contemplating all Jesus said. She was in active training with the other
disciples (Grenz, 75). This was an unusual activity for women. It was
Martha, not Mary, who was doing what women were supposed to do: be good homemakers.
In first century Jewish thought the women’s sphere was the home. A
woman learned everything she would need to know to be a wife and mother
and run a household. She was not required to learn the Torah or to
engage in religious activity that would take her out of the home for an
extended period of time. This included the three feasts men were
commanded to attend in Jerusalem (Spencer, 47). Jewish thought also
believed that something done that was obligatory carried more merit than
an act that was not obligatory, so learning the Torah and studying
carried no merit for a woman (Spencer, 48). The only way a woman could
earn merit was to perform those acts that were obligatory for her: be a
wife and mother. In Jesus’ time there was no reason for a woman to be
sitting at a rabbi’s feet. Mary should have been helping Martha.
When Martha came to Jesus in verse 40 and said, "Lord, do you not
care that my sister has left me to do all the work by myself? Tell her
then to help me," she was expecting Jesus to agree with her and send
Mary to help her. The verbs used to describe Martha show that this was
probably no small gathering. Martha is distracted, she asks for someone
to help her, and Jesus tells her she is worried and distracted by many
things. Martha is doing exactly what she should be doing: entertaining
and feeding her guests, and by all the cultural expectations of the day,
Mary should have been helping her. That was her proper place. But Jesus
10:41 But the Lord answered her, "Martha, Martha, you are
worried and distracted by many things; 10:42 there is need of
only one thing. Mary has chosen the better part, which will not
be taken away from her."
With these words Jesus set the traditional belief of a woman’s
place on its head. Jesus turned the priorities of a woman’s life upside
down with his belief that women should learn the word of God. By placing
the study of the word of God above the socially and culturally imposed
gender role of homemaker, Jesus made it clear that "a woman is greater
than what she does. She has worth and dignity apart from childbearing.
Her status is not dependent on her relationship to a man or her role in
society but is dependent on her relationship to God (Cowles, 86-7). Jesus affirmed what God had done in creation: woman was "a human being
in her own right" apart from any roles imposed on her since creation
In John’s Gospel we meet Mary and Martha again. This time they are
mentioned with their brother Lazarus. In John 11 Jesus raised Lazarus
from the dead. In chapter 12, six days before Passover, Jesus returns to
Bethany and is having dinner with the siblings.
12:1 Six days before the Passover Jesus came to Bethany, the
home of Lazarus, whom he had raised from the dead. 12:2 There
they gave a dinner for him. Martha served, and Lazarus was one
of those at the table with him. 12:3 Mary took a pound of costly
perfume made of pure nard, anointed Jesus' feet, and wiped them
with her hair. The house was filled with the fragrance of the
perfume. 12:4 But Judas Iscariot, one of
his disciples (the one who was about to betray him), said, 12:5
"Why was this perfume not sold for three hundred denarii and the
money given to the poor?" 12:6 (He said this not because he
cared about the poor, but because he was a thief; he kept the
common purse and used to steal what was put into it.) 12:7 Jesus
said, "Leave her alone. She bought it so that she might keep it
for the day of my burial. 12:8 You always have the poor with
you, but you do not always have me."
As in Luke, Martha is serving. Mary is once again at Jesus’ feet. In
a wanton display of affection Mary anoints Jesus’ feet with perfume that
costs a year’s wages. When she is condemned for this waste of good
money, Jesus defends her saying that she has prepared him for his
upcoming death. There are those who say this anointing for death is an
unintentional or "unconscious" prophetic act; Mary simply anointed his
feet out of her gratitude for the raising of Lazarus (Brown, 454). Jesus
was the one who gave it the prophetic meaning.
But is it that simple? In Luke we saw that Mary sat at Jesus’ feet as
one of his disciples. Given that John elaborates on the intimate
relationship between Jesus and the three siblings, we can also infer
that Mary is a disciple in the Johannine tradition as well. Jesus has
been telling the disciples that he was going to Jerusalem and would die
there by the hands of the religious leaders and be raised on the third
day, a teaching his male disciples did not listen to or understand (cf.
2:19-22). What if Mary got it? What if she listened, and she believed
what Jesus had said? He was going to Jerusalem to die. Her act of
extravagant love is not solely one of gratitude, it is a symbolic
prophetic act (Owen, 145). Mary sees what the others do not and
prophesies what lies ahead for Jesus: the grave (Owen, 145). The single
woman who sat as a disciple at the feet of Jesus, now anoints his feet
proclaiming what is ahead for him. As Jesus defended her right to be a
disciple, he now defends her prophetic act, which prepared him for his
Mary is not the only perceptive sister. Martha’s faith and
understanding of Jesus are seen in the previous chapter.
11:20 When Martha heard that Jesus was coming, she went and
met him, while Mary stayed at home. 11:21 Martha said to Jesus,
"Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died. 11:22 But even now I know that God will give you
whatever you ask of him."
When Jesus arrives four days after Lazarus has been buried, Martha is
the first to meet him. She states her absolute conviction that Lazarus
would not have died if Jesus had come sooner.
11:23 Jesus said to her, "Your brother will rise again."
11:24 Martha said to him, "I know that he will rise again in the
resurrection on the last day." 11:25 Jesus said to her, "I am
the resurrection and the life. Those who believe in me, even
though they die, will live, 11:26 and everyone who lives and
believes in me will never die. Do you believe this?" 11:27 She
said to him, "Yes, Lord, I believe that you are the Messiah, the
Son of God, the one coming into the world."
Jesus assures her that Lazarus will be resurrected, and Martha voices
her belief in the resurrection of the last days. Jesus then said to her,
"I am the resurrection and the life. Those who believe in me, even
though they die, will live, and everyone who lives and believes in me
will never die. Do you believe this?" (John 11:25-26). Mary’s response
of faith follows, "Yes, Lord, I believe that you are the Messiah, the
Son of God, the one coming into the world" (v. 27). "Martha’s statement
in John is virtually identical to Peter’s confession reported in the
other three Gospels" (Cunningham and Hamilton, 121).
confession does not appear in John; Mary’s does. In Matthew’s version of
Peter’s confession, Jesus says that his church would be built upon the
rock of this confession of faith.
This foundational confession of the church was declared by both
Martha and Peter. "Both understood who Jesus was," and both Martha and
Peter declared the truth, which had been revealed to them by the Holy
Spirit (Cunningham and Hamilton, 121). If we accept the foundational
confession of the church from a married man, we must also accept that
same confession of faith from a single woman. And if that confession of
faith is part of Peter’s qualification for spiritual leadership,
shouldn’t the same be true of Martha?
Both of these women were single. Mary who learned at Jesus’ feet like
the rest of his disciples. Martha who made the same proclamation of
faith upon which the church is built that Peter did. Most of the other
women portrayed in positive ways in the Gospels were also single. The
Samaritan woman who brought her village to Jesus (see
The Samaritan Woman). Mary Magdalene who
was the first to see the risen Christ and proclaim the gospel of his
resurrection. Even the women who stood at the
cross and then went to the tomb are identified by their sons, not their
husbands (see Apostle to the Apostles). This indicates that they were probably widows. If
these women are connected to men, it is as a sister or mother, not a
wife. The man their lives revolved around was Jesus. He was the one who
raised them to the equal standing that was their right through creation.
He restored them to their rightful place as daughters of Abraham and
daughters of God. He healed them, taught them and spent time with them.
He entrusted to them the greatest news humanity has ever heard: "He is
risen!" All of them were single, but that did not matter to Jesus. He
did not require them to have husbands before he allowed them to
minister. He only required that they follow and obey–and they did.
1. Matt 16:16 Simon Peter answered, "You are the Messiah, the Son of
the living God." Mark 8:29b Peter answered him,
"You are the Messiah." Luke 9:20 Peter answered, "The
Messiah of God." <return>
Raymond E. Brown, The Gospel According to John, vol. 29, The
Anchor Bible (New York: Doubleday, 1966), 454.
Shawna Renee Bound, "Women in the Gospels" in Your Daughters Shall
Prophesy: A Biblical Theology of Single Women in Ministry,
unpublished thesis, (Copyright © 2002 by Shawna Renee Bound).
C. S. Cowles, A Woman’s Place? Leadership in the Church
(Kansas City: Beacon Hill Press of Kansas City, 1993).
Loren Cunningham and David Joel Hamilton, Why Not Women? A Fresh
Look at Scripture on Women in Mission, Ministry, and Leadership
(Seattle: YWAM Publishing, 2000).
Fred B. Craddock, Luke. Interpretation Commentary. (Louisville,
KY: John Knox Press, 1990), 152.
Virginia Stem Owens, Daughters of Eve: Women of the Bible Speak to
Women of Today (Colorado Springs: NavPress Publishing Co., 1995).
Aída Besançon Spencer, Beyond the Curse: Women Called to Ministry
(Peabody, MA: Hendrickson Publishers, 1985), 43-63.
Women and Theology
Mary and Martha
See Voice Bible
Study, John, Lesson 14, 11:1-44
Voice Bible Study,
John , Lesson 15, 11:45-12:36
There is also available a
Lectionary Commentary on John